Some men are rapists, but most arent
Some women are sluts, but most arent
Some kids are awful, but most arent
Some black people are criminals but most arent
Some asian people are scammers, but most arent
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Some people who havent had sex are incels, but most arent
If sex is the goal, hire some help. Everything is consensual then.
If a relationship is the goal, a much harder goal, work on yourself first.
I’ve had depression, i am not autistic but do have adhd. I remember many times of feeling that exact frustration. I recently got chubby.
Confidence came when i worked on myself. For me, triathlon training boosted my confidence, i got in shape, literally took years off me.
Regardless of how you do it, its far harder to attract someone else if you are not attracted to yourself.